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Hi, all. A couple quick thoughts of my own.

First, let's remember that the individual who this post labeled transphobic described trans people as "a cancer" and insisted Donald Trump declare there to be two sexes, which - putting aside for now people who transition - is a rather mean slight to people who are born intersex. I think we can all agree that that particular individual is embracing transphobia.

Second, my own view of gender affirming care is that it is something that should be between the patient and his/her doctor (and family, if the patient is a minor). Government needs to stay out it. So do I, for that matter - my job is not to get involved in that person's life, but just to support that individual whenever I can, letting him/her know that he/she is a loved person.

Third, my own view of gendered spaces - which I recognize is a minority view - is that the harm caused by a trans person entering one is, in most cases, non-existent. If a trans girl in high school swims on the girl's team, well, is that really going to have a huge effect on our country's well-being? If a trans person enters my restroom, am I in any /likely/ danger?

Yes, there are hypotheticals...but life is full of hypotheticals which never come to pass and therefore can't be used as reasons to make people feel bad about who they are.

Rather, we need to make people feel loved and respected for who they are - especially minors. Again, your being trans just doesn't affect me, so if you need my support, you got it - especially if you need someone to fight back against politicians who think they know better than you, your doctors, and your family and friends.

Thanks as always for reading.

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Digital Canary 💪💪🇨🇦🇺🇦🗽's avatar

Excellent work, please keep it coming.

One critique: not all those who oppose the overreach of trans activists are transphobic and/or anti-trans RWNJs.

Many of us are lifelong progressives who understand biology exceptionally well, and recognize that the rights of females have been subordinated to the demands of a small but vocal group of trans-identified men. People who have read the Cass report, the Skrmetti amici curiae, the UK Supreme Court “what is a woman” judgement; people who believe that children deserve evidence-based healthcare; people who also believe that trans people are as deserving of fundamental human rights as every other person, but who don’t believe that appropriating the spaces, services, and opportunities that women have fought for over decades is fair to women.

And failing to acknowledge those legitimate concerns, tarring those who hold them as transphobic, bigoted, or hateful, is an own goal for the progressive movement: too many women (and some men) have turned their backs on the Democrats for this betrayal of women’s rights, and some have even made the (fantastically wrong, imho) decision to support Trump & other GOPers.

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